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Table of Contents

  • Introduction
  • Part 1: Loving, Learning, and Being Ourselves
    • Abandoning, perfection, being ourselves
    • Being role models
    • Exposing our (hidden) agendas
    • Learning from our children
    • Paying attention
  • Part 2: Stretching to See Children as Fully Human
    • Breaking the age barrier
    • Including Children in Do Unto Others
    • Noting the power imbalance
  • Part 3: Turning Things Upside Down
    • Closeness and independence
    • Exposing and Protecting
    • Missed and mixed signals
    • Process and product
    • Whose problem
  • Part 4: Handling Daily Traumas
    • Encouraging a range of emotion
    • Looking at "Bad" Behavior
    • Sulks and Disappointments
    • Surfing the Wave of conflict
    • Tears and Fears
    • You cannot have one without the other
  • Part 5: Being in the World
    • A place for fathers
    • Engaging in larger family issues
    • Getting help as Parents
    • Having all our children
    • Interacting with a materialist culture
    • Sex roles in Children
    • Staying human and connected

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